Astrology is a science though its lab is quiet different from the science lab.Today I want to share my thoughts regarding matching of charts for marriage purpose.Some people say that Astrology is useless and so matching should not be considered seriously.Let them say what they say here I want to put some points for people who believe in this science but anyhow not very familiar with the basics of matching or they are some what confused.If we are going to consult an astrologer for this purpose we should take in to consideration some following points:
1. You should consult a learned Astrologer.
2. You should have the correct birth details of the boy and girl. Birth details are Date of birth,Time of birth & Place of birth.
3. If any one Birth Details are not available don't match it taking one's famous (prachalit naam) with others rashi naam or moon sign name or birth chart/kundli for match.Same is the case with Numerology .Don't consider doubtful date of birth and don't mingle two ways of matching with other.
4.Don't take very seriously the no.of points in matching table because mostly they are just showing the nature and adjustment behavior between the two.
5 Consider Naadi Dosh,Yoni Dosh,Gana Dosh and Moon Position in both chart seriously.In this Naadi Dosh is main. There are some valuable points for cancellation of these kind of Dosh and so ask your Astrologer to consider them also.Moon mutual position with 2-12, 6-8 and 5-9 position is not good for Debts and sorrows/ accidents,Health related problems and for Issue/ childern respectively.
6. Mars Dosh or Mangalik Dosh is also Important but don't get afraid of it because you see there are 12 houses in a horoscope and 1,4,7,8,12 are the the five(5) houses where if mars is placed it is said that horoscope is Mangali. In South they consider 2nd house also which means (total 6 houses out of 12) 50 % of the kundlis are with Manglik Dosh.So its doesn't make any sense that all the Mangalik's are bound to face problems in married life.So I would suggest that first try to understand with your Astrologer that particular placement of Mars in the chart of Boy or Girl is Harmful or not and then ask him to judge whether this Harmful position can be overlooked or not .Either through same kind of Mars in other person chart or through cancellation of Mars in his/her chart because of his/her own planetary combination.7th and 8th house Mars is more bad.You have to see that Sun,Rahu, Mars,Saturn are also the malefic planets hence if they are affecting by their worst placement then they are also considered bad.Mainly if they jointly affect the 7th house and 7th lord.Even Jupiter can be worst for Tauras and Capricorn (ascendant) people.Bhav Kundli examination can also help you lot and it will not only clear the inner strength of chart but you can know the right position /placement of planets.This will be useful in Mars actual position.You can also go through Navamansa chart .All this points are very important in matching.
7.In love Marriage don't try to match and satisfy yourself .Our Astrology Science don't permit us to do so.
8. As said in Point 4 inspite of bothering for matching no. we should cross check each planets in charts that whether they have good mutual relation for both or not
9.Try to find out astrologically what are the priorities of both.
10.Go through the Dashas and results and see what will be the impact for both of them.Consider also the longevity in both of the charts.
11.One can also consider whether match is affecting Father& Mother in Law,elder& younger brothers/sisters or not.Means over all family affairs.
12.Ask your Astrologer for any kind of rituals to be done for the betterment of the couple.
13.Give proper regard to to your Astrologer and after finally fixing marriage with the help of your Astrologer at least first give him this news .
14. One should never try to cheat by providing wrong Birth-Details.By mutual understanding to change the name of Girl officially is one option.
15. It will be far better if parents choose 5-7 charts best according to them and then ask Astrologer to give them the ranking astrologically.Hope this will Help.
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